According to this sage article (click the title to link it and read yourself) J should do 13 hours a week of housework (heehee, that is funny!)
Now it is not rocket science to know the more kids you have the more work/mess... but who would have guessed single men (boyfriends) do more housework than husbands? I guess I got married too young to take advantage of that lil fact. Bah!
Seriously, I WISH I could blame this mess all on J but it is a "family thing" Perhaps I can blame it on genes?